You might be getting new challenges every day if you got a naughty child. There seems to be a reason behind such naughtiness, may be because they are hungry, overexcited, bored or even tired.
Many would suggest different measures of how to control, manipulate, transform them but all of such suggestions aren’t always right. Finding the right measure doing parenting right would develop good morals into the naughty child
Here we are going to share seven tips from experienced parents-
1.Try to switch roles with the naughty child
Allow the child to play the role of the parent and it would be seen that they’ll immediately get into the game and become a child with moral
For example, one can easily remember the time when your child refuses to go home from his/her toy store. Try the above-mentioned suggestion and convince him that way.
2. Try to communicate and figure out together how their mistake can be fixed:
Many children deny their mistakes and are even not ready for the punishment. Parents should always communicate and try to tell him the reasons for his mistake and how it should not be repeated again. In spite of being angry on them, give them some household tasks that they finds pretty hard and the transformation can be seen thereafter.
In most cases, your kid will readily take your hand when they won’t accept punishment for bad behavior. So what should you do if your child has misbehaved, but isn’t ready to face the music?
Talking works like magic
Simply talk to them, like you would if you were talking to an adult. Calmly explain why they’re guilty and why they’re going to be punished. You can make a business proposal like Suggesting that they should either pay a fine from their piggy bank, or do the dishes for the next week. Let them have the right to choose even when they make mistakes.
Now please keep in mind that emotional abuse is never the right way out. So instead of making your child stand in the corner for a long time. Open up a dialogue and figure out together how their mistake can be fixed. When they refuse to eat their meal, but demand junk food, say If a child refuses to eat lunch But wants their favorite sugary stuff instead ; offer them dessert as a prize for cleaning up their plate. This tip works extremely well if your kid is competitive. In this case they’ll put all their effort into eating their meal as fast as possible to enjoy the sweet prize after work.
3. Offer your naughty child a good deal:
Don’t get frustrated, simply try to find compromises. Children are more likely to cooperate if you offer them a good deal. It sounds like most adults I know.When they won’t eat their breakfast, If this is a case; Try to set an example. when parents are too busy in the morning and the child has to have breakfast by themselves. It’s no wonder. They might leave most of the food on their plate. If your kid refuses to have breakfast ,keep them company to make it more fun ,suggest they count how many spoonfuls of cereal are left? you can be sure that doing this they won’t even notice that they’ve eaten the whole bowl
Now there are several other options that can make your little one eager to enjoy their morning meal. For instance try breakfast on a stick. You just need a few wooden skewers and pieces of waffle, different fruit chunks and berries. Kids have fun stabbing their food with sticks, and this turns any old boring fork and knife breakfast into a cool game. Plus they’ll gobble up this healthy food
Children are not ready for things that don’t prize. They like to do things that entertain them. For example, Parents often tell their child to score good in exams so they will gift him something special. This technique do matters and a good result can be seen.
4. Keep your naughty child company
Children like to have someone as a company. They like communicating and this can lead to a good way for parents while feeding them even if they don’t want to.
5. Turning a task into a Play session
It has been concluded that a child would find a task more interesting if it is challenging as a game. For example, if your child doesn’t really want to put on a dress, try asking her/him, if she/he can put it blind-folded.
6. Try not to overreact
You know, there are many instances where the things go unbearable and you can’t wait for a stiff reaction towards your child. But overreacting over such situation would trigger the whole thing and make more complications which can even turn your child more irritated than before. Hope you would not like it, anyway.
7. Do what feels right for your naughty child
Last but not the least important point: Never go for other’s opinion. He/She is your child and you know better than all the others. Do what feels good for your child and your family. Things would only work if you believe in the thing.
Extra help with difficult behaviour
- Try consulting health visitor- Ask them the appropriate reason and measure to control the ill behaviour of your child, if things go out of hand. They will always be happy to help.
- Contact a family advisor- Family advisors generally happen to come across situations like these and would be a great helping hand in giving some helpful suggestions that would be likely to work.
- Surf relevant web tips: There are a couple of blogs and writings, one would easily find about this thing. Make a point of such suggestions and try to implement it to see a good change in your child’s behaviour.